First off, I won myself a dress on ebay I'm stoked to wear for the wedding. It is this number.
Luckily because it is not fitted it may not need alternation. Well, I couldn't decide what I wanted to do about shoes, so I got 2 pairs as they were cheap and I will wear them again. Note, both are in black glitter, but depending on comfort and fit, I'll keep just one pair that looks good with the dress and doesn't anger my nerve pain too badly.
Also, I finally decided that I MUST MUST wear my Alice in Chains costume this year after finding one that amused me so on sale. I bought, oh yes, I did: