Ok, just so you know, the fact that you still have some meat on your thighs is awesome. (referring to the front jeans pic) Don't care for the sheer wrap, but I know why you do it. I just think it 'ages' the outfit. But I have to tell you, as a third person with no vested interest in things _really_, I think you are the only one that notices your batwings!
Your arm looks totally 'normal' in the bottom picture :)