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A General Note [Aug. 10th, 2007|03:09 pm]
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If you are a member of lots of porn LJ groups like "show your ___________" or you are blogging about poly stuff, generally I will not add you as a friend. It isn't personal, it's just not what I use my journal for.

If you are poly and keep me off of such a filter, I'm cool with you being on my friends list. We don't have to have all of the same views politically, romantically, or religiously to be friends online or in life.

On the "using lj as a porn site" thing, I just don't feel comfortable sharing my more private thoughs, and I can't explain why. I just don't.

[User Picture]From: dreadcptflint
2007-08-11 08:35 am (UTC)

Monogamy is a great lifestyle choice. I still have one set of friends doing the poly thing (on the fidelity side) and their are times that one side of the relationship does something that makes me cringe. I have a definite preference for people doing the monogamous thing.
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[User Picture]From: starrynytes4me
2007-08-11 07:28 pm (UTC)
Well, cringe-worthy relationship moves are made in both types of relationships I'm sure, but when you are maintaining multiple relationships you have even more opportunity to be an idiot than with just one. :) I'm a jealous and insecure person, and I wouldn't make it one day in a poly relationship.
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[User Picture]From: dreadcptflint
2007-08-11 10:27 pm (UTC)
One of the big lies is that jealously doesn't exist in a poly relationship. Heck, even in the best of mono relationships jealously happens.
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