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Lanette

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A General Note [Aug. 10th, 2007|03:09 pm]
Lanette
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If you are a member of lots of porn LJ groups like "show your ___________" or you are blogging about poly stuff, generally I will not add you as a friend. It isn't personal, it's just not what I use my journal for.

If you are poly and keep me off of such a filter, I'm cool with you being on my friends list. We don't have to have all of the same views politically, romantically, or religiously to be friends online or in life.

On the "using lj as a porn site" thing, I just don't feel comfortable sharing my more private thoughs, and I can't explain why. I just don't.
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[User Picture]From: ashiegrrrl
2007-08-11 05:44 am (UTC)
Beloved and I are fully monogamous despite having started our relationship as poly. I completely understand and respect your point of view. *hugs*
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[User Picture]From: starrynytes4me
2007-08-11 07:26 pm (UTC)
I try to keep a more open mind as I understand that relationships are the hardest thing that we do as humans and everyone has a right to search for love in the way that they best can. Certainly, no one person has "the answer". I've just seen more drama and heartache than my share from being around Poly relationships. Thanks for sharing your story and I'm glad you are happy in your relationship now!
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