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[Feb. 21st, 2006|09:47 am]
Lanette
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the Asserter
Test finished!
you chose AY - your Enneagram type is EIGHT.


"I must be strong"



Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.


How to Get Along with Me



  • Stand up for yourself... and me.
  • Be confident, strong, and direct.
  • Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.
  • Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.
  • Give me space to be alone.
  • Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.
  • I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.
  • When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just the way I am.

What I Like About Being a Eight



  • being independent and self-reliant
  • being able to take charge and meet challenges head on
  • being courageous, straightforward, and honest
  • getting all the enjoyment I can out of life
  • supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me
  • upholding just causes

What's Hard About Being a Eight



  • overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to
  • being restless and impatient with others' incompetence
  • sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it
  • never forgetting injuries or injustices
  • putting too much pressure on myself
  • getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right

Eights as Children Often



  • are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit
  • are sometimes loners
  • seize control so they won't be controlled
  • fugure out others' weaknesses
  • attack verbally or physically when provoked
  • take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings

Eights as Parents



  • are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted
  • are sometimes overprotective
  • can be demanding, controlling, and rigid

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages



You are not completely happy with the result?!
You chose AY

Would you rather have chosen:

  • BY (FOUR)
  • CY (SIX)
  • AX (SEVEN)
  • AZ (THREE)




  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:


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    You scored higher than 69% on ABC

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    You scored higher than 52% on XYZ
    Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test
    LinkReply

    Comments:
    [User Picture]From: dove
    2006-02-21 06:17 pm (UTC)
    www.similarminds.com has a much more detailed questionairre. But wow! What a change from the 2! I think your 2-ness battles your 8-ness sometimes. An 2, pushed to the edge, becomes an 8 quite often, I'll bet!
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    [User Picture]From: starrynytes4me
    2006-02-21 06:29 pm (UTC)
    I think I go between both. I'm naturally a 2, but when my pain is bad it is 8 all the way (survival mode). The last few days have been rough and have pushed me to that 8 edge.

    Hrrm. The site you sent me to said this:
    Main Type
    Overall Self
    Take Free Enneagram Personality Test
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    [User Picture]From: dove
    2006-02-21 06:34 pm (UTC)
    That's cool! I figured your two-ness was still very strong in there! Hehe... I sound like some jedi-talker.

    The two-ness is strong in this one...

    I, too (two, haha), can be an 8 when pushed. Opinionated and loud, here I come!

    "I'm a third level ninjitsu and I'll kick your *ss!"
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    [User Picture]From: starrynytes4me
    2006-02-21 06:36 pm (UTC)
    *giggles* This amuses the Lanette. The ninjitsu-faux is strong in this one, young Amywalker.
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    [User Picture]From: dove
    2006-02-22 01:49 am (UTC)
    *giggles* Amywalker. Hee!
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    [User Picture]From: radu
    2006-02-21 06:18 pm (UTC)

    hmmm


    the Helper

    Test finished!

    you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO.


    "I must help others"



    Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's
    needs.


    How to Get Along with Me



    • Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.

    • Share fun times with me.

    • Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus
      on yours.

    • Let me know that I am important and special to you.

    • Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.



      In Intimate Relationships


    • Reassure me that I am intersting to you.

    • Reassure me often that you love me.

    • Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.


    What I Like About Being a Two



    • being able to relate easily to people and to make friends

    • knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better

    • being generous, caring, and warm

    • being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings

    • being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor


    What's Hard About Being a Two



    • not being able to say no

    • having low self-esteem

    • feeling drained from overdoing for others

    • not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish

    • criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should

    • being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to
      them

    • working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real
      feelings


    Twos as Children Often



    • are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism

    • try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding

    • are outwardly compliant

    • are popular or try to be popular with other children

    • act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention

    • are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Twos), or quiet and shy
      (the more introverted Twos)


    Twos as Parents



    • are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm
      and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)

    • are often playful with their children

    • wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?"
      "Have I caused irreparable damage?"

    • can become fiercely protective




    Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

    The Enneagram Made Easy

    Discover the 9 Types of People

    HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages



    You are not completely happy with the result?!

    You chose CX


    Would you rather have chosen:

  • AX (SEVEN)
  • BX (NINE)
  • CY (SIX)
  • CZ (ONE)


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    [User Picture]From: starrynytes4me
    2006-02-21 06:30 pm (UTC)

    Re: hmmm

    I used to score 2 every time. I have had bad pain the last few days though, so I think my 8ness is coming out.
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